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Chapter 2 How to Manage Family Life The practice of regulating one's emotions prior to getting married is an important foundation of maintaining a marriage. But if both parties never learned to contro

Chapter 2 discusses the importance of managing one's emotions before marriage as a foundation for a lasting relationship. When couples lack emotional control, they may hurt each other, leading to pote

hope that you will find someone else to help you with the many things in life. There are some who get married because they expect that their spouse will treat them favorably in different ways; and at

This text discusses the misconceptions surrounding marriage and the impact of unrealistic expectations on relationships. Many enter marriage hoping their spouses will meet their needs continuously, wh

that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can

เนื้อหานี้สำรวจระดับความสวยงามของคนซึ่งยกย่องการมีศีลธรรมในความรับผิดชอบและกิจกรรมประจำวัน บทความยังเน้นถึงบทบาทสำคัญของผู้ให้คำปรึกษาในเรื่องการแต่งงาน ผู้ที่มีประสบการณ์สามารถช่วยแก้ไขปัญหาครอบครัวแ

Chinese people understood this well. They even have a fable called "Teaching your Unborn Child" that has been retold continually since ancient times. During the Cheng Meng Season (a Chinese tradition

The story unfolds during the Cheng Meng Season, where two sisters find a bag of money. The older sister, teaching her unborn child about virtues, insists on waiting for the rightful owner. When two wo

utilize the four requisites, how they work, and how they conduct their daily activities. Parents can instill wholesomeness, intelligence, and compassion towards others by teaching their children respe

การเลี้ยงดูเด็กอย่างชาญฉลาดรวมถึงการปลูกฝังคุณธรรมและสติปัญญาผ่านการสอนการเคารพวรรณกรรมและประสบการณ์ของคนที่มีคุณธรรม โดยการใช้สี่สิ่งจำเป็นในชีวิตและความวิตกกังวลเรื่องความรู้ทางโลกและผลงานของธรรมะเด

The children will believe that "when you do something good you will receive good in return" is false; and "when you misbehave you receive good in return" is true. When these children grow up they will

The text emphasizes that children often misinterpret the relationship between good actions and their consequences. It stresses the need for parents to discipline rather than indulge, teaching children

In a large family, members who do not eat dinner together have even more disagreements. Take for an example, if one day a mother cooks a very delicious meal that everyone enjoys, everyone will eat mor

In a large family, not eating dinner together leads to disagreements and emotional issues. Children who eat late may feel neglected, while those who help out end up with leftovers. This breeds jealous

Dinner is an important meal that should be reserved for the family. Missing it would be unfortunate since everyone must tend to their own personal things after dinner. Some will do homework while othe

Dinner is a vital meal for family bonding, preventing unresolved issues and conflicts. While some families resort to separate dinners and television, true warmth comes from shared meals. Couples shoul

Chapter 16 What Should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along? Here is a true story for parents who have not yet begun creating harmony in their families. There was once a family with three d

This chapter discusses the challenges faced by families when siblings do not get along. The story of three daughters highlights the emotional pain experienced by the oldest sibling as her sisters rema

Chapter 27 Dad, Why Were We Born? One day, a family invited guests to their home for a religious rite for the great-grandparent. After the ceremony, when all the guests had left, the son asked the fat

In this chapter, a father explains to his son the fundamental question of life's purpose that everyone contemplates, regardless of their status. After a ceremony honoring their great-grandparent, the

banana blossoms to eat with condiments. And yet we still have to wait a full year for the fruit. "The first stage of good deeds: Once we have done something good, no matter if anybody sees it or not,

The text outlines the four stages of good deeds: self-satisfaction, development of character, recognition of hard work, and societal esteem. It emphasizes patience in expecting the outcomes of good de

In the chapter, "The Correct Way to Gain Merits" from the book Good Question, Good Answer by Venerable Phrarajabhavanaviriyakhun, the issue of merit was discussed in detail as follows: "The Lord Buddh

ในบทนี้พูดถึงวิธีที่ถูกต้องในการสร้างบุญตามคำสอนของพระพุทธเจ้า ได้แก่ ความมีน้ำใจในการให้ การปฏิบัติตามศีล และการทำสมาธิ การให้มีความจำเป็นต้องมาจากความตั้งใจที่บริสุทธิ์ การปฏิบัติตามศีลควรเริ่มจากกา

do not know when we are going to die. We must sooner or later be separated from all loved ones and treasured things. How can people think about death? 1. Thinking about death with the false view: Thin

This text explores the dual perspectives on death: one as a mere inevitability leading to despair, and the other as a motivator for a purposeful life. It emphasizes the cultivation of good deeds and m

In Buddhist teachings, parents are revered as Arahantas' in the family. They are the first teachers to their children. There is a Thai saying that at the parents' feet are gateways to the heavenly rea

ตามคำสอนของพุทธศาสนา พ่อแม่ถือเป็นอรหันต์ในครอบครัวและเป็นครูคนแรกของเด็ก การเคารพและตอบแทนบุญคุณพ่อแม่เป็นสิ่งที่สำคัญในสังคมไทย พ่อแม่ควรได้รับการดูแลจากลูกในวัยชรา และการละเลยพ่อแม่ในปัจจุบันกลายเป

This is the way of life that our Thai ancestors inherited long ago. However, how their heritages will be revived and supported depends on one major truth: we must be the first one (exemplar) who pract

เนื้อหานี้เน้นความสำคัญของการกลับคืนสู่ประเพณีบรรพบุรุษไทยผ่านการฝึกหัดการทำบุญและการเข้าร่วมที่วัดท้องถิ่น เพื่อฟื้นฟูและสนับสนุนมรดกทางวัฒนธรรมของเรา การปฏิบัติอย่างต่อเนื่องจะนำไปสู่การสร้างชุมชนที

minds only when they practice meditation until their minds reach a profound level of peacefulness and becomes so bright that they are able to see their minds through the brightness. Most people in thi

The text discusses the significance of meditation in achieving a peaceful mind, which allows individuals to see their true nature. It emphasizes the role of monks in teaching meditation and Dhamma to

Chapter 45 Contributing a Buddha Image- The Body of Enlightenment Donating a Buddha image for oneself or one's family was a favorite tradition of our ancestors. Wealthier people traveled around the co

In this chapter, we discuss the importance of donating a Buddha image as a traditional practice among our ancestors. Wealthier individuals often traveled to contribute these images to temples, recogni

Thus mental suffering, which is a universality of life, exists for those who experience disappointment and dissatisfaction. The Lord Buddha introduced a solution to this difficulty, allowing his follo

Mental suffering is a common experience tied to disappointment and dissatisfaction. The teachings of the Lord Buddha offer solutions that lead to enlightenment and joy. By attaining inner wisdom, indi

146 THE TRUE REFUGE VIXVII Goal of Life Laypeople like us need to know that the objective of our lives is for the attainment of Nirvana, so that we can manage our time in order to achieve both worldly

THE TRUE REFUGE VIXVIII Never Retreat... Never Regress 27 January 2002 We should always try to improve our mind. Perseverance is very important. Never retreat, regress or give up even though you feel

This text emphasizes the importance of never retreating or regressing on our journey of self-improvement and meditation. It advocates for daily practice to build the habit of meditation, which allows